..Connection..

i wanted to title this post as distance but

..Connection..

sounded comforting....

reasonable...

- Spaced yet still in Love -

There's a saying...

" Absence makes the heart grow fonder "

well....

it also makes you feel alot more lonely...

A friend told me:

" All, a person wants is someone

to be there, to hold them close

and

tell em' that

" everything is fine "

Now, no one belief craps

like touch your heart and you will feel me or

close your eyes and you'll see me.....

please.......use Skype

If you don't know how to use Skype....

you might as well be blind too... "

- Love at a distance -

Hard part:

waiting...

at some point...you might wanna end it...

but then, thinking about what made you wait so long...

will make you wait even longer..

The problem:

either one of the involved will feel that,

the other is not putting enough effort to keep

the flames alive and dancing...

but

they always forget that BOTH are fighting

this mental war and both are on the same side...

' Long Distance Relationships

are always at war

against

patience and distance '

as you can see

distance have already infiltrated

the quote...

What i think.........'out loud'...:

Everyone forgets that the heart is just an icon....

a symbol....of love... thats all...

the chemistry comes from all the way up there...

the brain...

As far as i know...

the ' love feeling '...

has nothing to do with the heart...

Everything works up there..

The brain lies to you and puts the blame on the heart...

the heart that knows nothing but to only keeping you alive by pumping..

....and please....

no one feels with their heart...

so don't say " you hurt me " *hands close to chest* ------> (Bullshit)

Have you felt a strong jolt in your heart before??

when you're down & hurt.....a heart grabbing feeling...?

well, you shouldn't...thats not love failure my friend...

thats a stroke.. =)

Alright...

Here is something to think off...

you may love the person on the other side of the phone

or a Skype call...

How sure are you when you are with the person,

it's gonna be the same?

My mum knew a couple that fell deeply love with each other...

A few months in a relationship, the guy got an offer to work

overseas...

they kept in touch for eight solid years..

building castles in the sky together and when the time came..

they got married....and soon..

their sky castles got blown away...

they only lasted 5months before they got a legal divorce..

Their reasons for doing so....

Her point: He had habits she could't stand...

His point: She is a total control freak... =)

yes, it could be 1 out of a hundred couple....

it may also be a bad example....

but think...this actually happened...

plus, we are living in the 20th century...

Sincerity is the BIG question...

Concluding:

Falling in love or keeping it alive

is not

the heart of

a relationship

of any kind...

"Accepting the person"

of any kind

is the heart of a relationship..

Inspired by,

Iyeswary Sugumaran